Bringing Santa Into Christmas Traditions with Meaning and Fun

Hi friends!

Christmas is such a magical time for kids, full of songs, decorations, and special traditions. One of the most beloved parts of the holiday is Santa Claus—his bright red suit, his sleigh, and the excitement of presents on Christmas morning. While the idea of Santa and the “naughty and nice list” is fun, I love thinking about how we can also teach kids the real history of Santa and what he represents. This way, we can make holiday traditions both fun and meaningful.

The Real Story of Santa Claus

Many people know Santa as the jolly man who delivers gifts, but his origins tell a story about generosity, kindness, and helping those in need.

Saint Nicholas: Santa Claus is inspired by Saint Nicholas, a real person who lived in the 4th century. He was known for secretly giving gifts to children and families who didn’t have much, helping people without expecting anything in return.

Acts of kindness: The essence of Santa is about spreading joy through service, giving to others, and caring for those around us.

What we can teach children: Santa can become a role model for helpfulness, generosity, and thinking about others, not just presents.

Lessons for Kids

When we share the story of Santa Claus beyond the presents, we can teach children:

1. The joy of giving: Helping others is more rewarding than receiving.

2. Community and kindness: Small acts of service make a big difference.

3. Gratitude: Appreciating what we have while noticing what others may need.

A Family Tradition: Letters to Siblings

In our home, Santa is fun and not actually expected to deliver presents—but on Christmas Eve, each child is given a sibling (or friend, or parent, if you are an only child) to write a letter to about why they love them. After writing the letter, they choose a cookie to leave at the table along with the note. On Christmas morning, the sibling finds the letter and cookie and reads the heartfelt message.

This tradition:

Replaces writing a letter to Santa with something more meaningful.

Encourages kids to express love, gratitude, and thoughtfulness.

Makes Christmas morning feel even more special and personal.

Printable: “I Love My Sibling” Letter

Here’s a printable template you can use for your little ones. It is designed for early readers and writers, with tracing, drawing, and simple sentence starters.

I Love My Sibling Letter Template

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I love my sibling because _______________________.

You make me happy when _________________________.

My favorite thing to do with you is ______________.

[Draw a picture of your sibling here]

From: ___________________

To: ___________________

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Instructions:

1. Print the template for each child.

2. Help them trace or write words to complete the sentences.

3. Encourage them to draw a picture of their sibling.

4. Place the letter on a plate with a cookie for the sibling to find on Christmas morning.

Early Reading Activity

Along with the printable, here’s a fun early reading activity that ties into the letter:

"Read and Find the Words” Game

Materials Needed:

The completed “I Love My Sibling” letter

Small cards with key sight words from the letter (love, happy, favorite, sibling, from, to)

Instructions:

1. Read the letter together slowly.

2. Show the sight word cards one at a time.

3. Have the child find the word in their letter and point to it.

4. Repeat with each sight word until the child can recognize all the words in context.

This activity reinforces early reading skills while keeping it meaningful and connected to expressing love for family.

Easy Service Activity for Preschool and Early Elementary Kids

“Santa’s Little Helpers” Kindness Jar

Materials Needed:

A jar or container

Strips of paper

Markers or crayons

Optional: stickers for decorating

Instructions:

1. Decorate the jar with your child.

2. On each strip of paper, write or draw a simple act of kindness or service (examples: help a sibling, make a card, donate a toy).

3. Fold the strips and place them in the jar.

4. Each day, have your child pull one strip and complete the act of kindness.

5. Celebrate completing each one!

A Note About the Service Jar:

I know this idea isn’t new or groundbreaking, but the beauty of it is in how it helps children really understand service and generosity. Seeing small acts of kindness written down and completed makes the concept of giving tangible and memorable. Even preschoolers can grasp the idea of helping others in a simple, concrete way.

Variation for Preschoolers:

Use pictures on the strips instead of words.

Act out the kindness with your help.

Why This Works

These activities connect children to the true meaning of Santa Claus: helping others, sharing joy, and spreading kindness. They also teach reading, writing, and expressing feelings in a fun, interactive way.

Wrapping Up

By emphasizing Santa’s example of selflessness and joy in giving, we can help children understand the deeper message of Christmas—love, compassion, and service to others. Just as Santa brings happiness to many, children can learn to bring light into the lives of those around them. When we guide kids to see Santa as a symbol of Christlike qualities—generosity, empathy, and caring for others—we create opportunities for them to practice these virtues daily. Through small acts of kindness, thoughtful gifts, and helping those in need, children experience firsthand that the spirit of Christmas is not just about receiving, but about giving from the heart. And ultimately, these lessons remind us all that Christmas is about Jesus, the ultimate example of love and selfless giving.

This holiday season, let’s encourage kids to be Santa’s little helpers, share love with family, spread kindness to everyone around them, and remember the true meaning of Christmas!